It's been three months since the breakup and I still keep thinking about them. Would it be okay to reach out first?

If your heart keeps returning to that person even after three months, it’s natural to want to contact them first. Even so, it would be better not to choose to contact them again right now. Reaching out may ease your feelings for a moment, but you are more likely to experience greater emotional upheaval than receive the answer you want. This time, it would benefit you more to protect ■■■’s heart than to focus on that person’s reaction. ■■■ has a tendency not to easily erase people or things that have entered their heart, and to go over them repeatedly alone before reaching a conclusion. You have a strong innate drive, so even in relationships you tend to make the first move and try to sort things out, but right now that energy is more likely to turn into emotional exhaustion within ■■■ than to reach the other person. 2026 is a year when competition and sharing between people, as well as spending, will move significantly, so matters that weigh on your heart are likely to take precedence over a flow that stabilizes your romantic relationship again. This year, the indications that bind a relationship together are weak, and there is also an underlying pattern that shakes ■■■’s relationship sector, making it difficult for the result of contacting them to settle clearly. Even so, if you decide to do so, do not send a lengthy explanation of your feelings or all your hurt at once. Just briefly and matter-of-factly ask how they are. Do not press for a reply, and after sending it once, it is important not to interpret the other person’s reaction on ■■■’s behalf. The purpose of contacting them should not be to hold on to them again, but to confirm your own feelings. Choosing to leave things as they are now is not giving up. It is gathering the strength to choose a more solid relationship.